Dated Him for Years And He Married Someone Else?

             Dated Him for Years And He Married Someone Else?

After being in a relationship with a guy for years he married someone else! Behind your back! Many ladies don't discuss this but it happens more often than you might think. A guy and a girl date for several years only for her to stumble upon his wedding invitation or his face (and the face of his bride) on a wedding souvenir.

 Yes he is set to wed or already wedded some girl you never even knew existed. Suddenly you know why his calls have been few and far between, that's why he didn't come back to apologise after that slight misunderstanding...it all makes sense. Then what happens next? You cry yourself to sleep and wonder if you weren't pretty enough, smart enough or caring enough. This introspection can be valuable but often it only leads to a downward spiral of self pity, further hate for mankind and then a numbness! I can tell you for free - Human beings are unpredictable.

But an old adage says "If you close your eyes because you do not want to see bad people, a good person will pass while your eyes are closed" Many times, when things go wrong or difficulties come, instead of seeing our distress as a blessing, we view it as trouble and become angry. In doing this we run the risk of missing what God has for us to learn.

Was God trying to get your attention all along? Did you miss the signs? Instead of taking time to pray and seek God about the matter, we run to others in an effort to validate our feelings or solve the situation (need I mention all the time you spend cursing this fellow in your heart?) God wants us to learn how to trust Him completely. Total trust in God and his omnipotence and omniscience help you see that all things work together for those who love God and are called according to his purpose. Just because something bad happens does not mean we have done something wrong or human race is evil.

 Maybe, God simply wants to teach us how to listen for the Holy Spirits guidance and trust in his will. Life is crazy sometimes, and unpleasant things happen. It's hard to trust, it's hard to love, it might be hard to just move on. There are so many men and women who have gone through bad experiences that have led them to say "All men are the same." Are they? With 7.068 billion people on planet earth and nine million bicycles in Beijing so don't let one person, or a few persons make you give up on humanity. Just as there is a season set aside for blessing, there will be times when we face difficulty and unhappiness.

 We may love the sunny days, but often it is in the hard times, that we grow stronger in our faith and more focused on the Lord and His will for us through this we have a chance to mature and the experience becomes enriching. - See more

"Have you ever been in a position where your vision of life is distorted?
Have you ever been in a position where you eat from hand to mouth?
Have you been in a position where your condition has made you a constant beggar?
Have ever been in a position where everyone has abandoned you to beg in the land of your birth and maybe in another mans land?
Have you ever been in a position where people ascribe your problem to your name? That poor man, childless woman, mad son etc. They called Bartimaeus by the name of his problem -Blind Bartimaeus".

"When hidden wisdom is made available to anybody, that person's life will increase because increase is the function of additional knowledge and wisdom".

"It takes discipline to desire to know. Knowing is an investment. Going to school and coming to church are investments. What you do not know, you can never know and become. Knowing is the first thing that you must need in your life. He who does not know and does not know that he does not know will never know. Therefore, anything you have that you cannot control is what you do not have. May you by the force of knowledge, today, be approved and appointed by God for celebrative appointment and promotion in the name that is above every other name, in Jesus name."

 

"Until heaven begins to influence your children, they will become like others in the society. If you have given them everything without Jesus, you have not given them anything. If your children are not at your command, you have not done your covenant right with God. Everything has to change because the radiance of God must reflect on your position in the covenant. We argue and negotiate our failures daily. Some of us have come to a level in life where we do not need knowledge and just living by what we know years back. There is no new thing that is waking us up, and influencing our lives anew. You are already an accident waiting to happen. Today, by revelation knowledge, you shall be approved for a new appointment and honor in the name that is above every name, in Jesus name. Amen"

                                                IT IS POSSIBLE FOR US TO ......



" It is possible for us to become anything on earth but we must be ready and committed to pay the price of knowledge. Success is defined as God meeting a man at the point of his ability. That is why your education and connection cannot guarantee your success. Your success begins with commitment to allow God have a role in your life pursuit. By divine influence through the power of God, you are here and on earth to reign and rule in power"

                                           BY NDUBUISI ANYA

BBA housemates.

Melvin and Belverly visited Airtel Head office today at Banana Island.
They arrived at 11.45 a.m and they had some  photo shoot with tthe staff of Airtel Nigeria.

Cameron: I don’t have to apologise to Obama for ‘no’ vote

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  Mr Cameron is sure that President Obama will understand 'politics is difficult' EPA

Sonia Elks and Devika Bhat in Washington

Updated 46 minutes ago

David Cameron has said that he does not have to apologise to the President Obama after failing to persuade MPs to join the US in launching a strike against the Assad regime in Syria.
The Prime Minster has been forced to rule out military intervention after 30 Tory rebels and nine Lib Dems joined Labour in voting down a motion that backed the use of force in Syria “if necessary”.
The humiliating defeat was the first time since 1782 that a UK Government has lost a vote about military action.
Mr Cameron spoke of his regret at being unable to.

Dotun Gets Engaged

Cool FM OAP DO2dTUN also known as Dotun got engaged over the weekend to Taiwo. The event which took place at Shagamu drew well wishers from both the media and the entertainment industry. i wish you well Dotun of coolfm lagos